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Contested Divorce Lawyer Ocean County, NJ





Contested Divorce Lawyer Ocean County, NJ

You just received divorce papers, and you and your spouse can’t agree on property division, custody, or spousal support. Now you’re facing a contested divorce in Ocean County, New Jersey. You’re worried about the cost, the time, and the uncertainty. At Law Offices Of SRIS, P.C., we understand the stress. Our firm helps individuals navigate contested divorce proceedings in Ocean County Family Court. Call (888) 437-7747 to request a consultation. Law Offices Of SRIS, P.C. — Advocacy Without Borders.

Last reviewed: June 2026

Strategic Options in a Contested Divorce

When a divorce is contested, both sides have the opportunity to negotiate, mediate, or litigate. At Law Offices Of SRIS, P.C., Mr. Sris and his Of Counsel assess the specific issues—such as equitable distribution, custody, and alimony—and craft a strategy tailored to your goals. We explore direct negotiation with the other party’s attorney first; if that is not productive, we prepare for the mandatory Early Settlement Panel (ESP) and, if necessary, trial.

New Jersey’s mandatory Early Settlement Panel is a unique feature that often helps resolve contested divorces. A panel of retired judges hears each side’s position and recommends a settlement. We take ESP preparation seriously, presenting a clear, evidence-based position to the panel. If the ESP recommendation is not acceptable and further settlement discussions fail, the case proceeds to an Intensive Settlement Conference (ISC) and then trial before the Superior Court.

What to Expect During a Contested Divorce in Ocean County

A contested divorce begins with the filing of a Complaint for Divorce in the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division—Family Part, located at 120 Hooper Avenue, Toms River, NJ 08753. The filing fee is $325 (including surcharge). The plaintiff must serve the defendant with the Complaint and a Case Information Statement (CIS), a mandatory financial disclosure form that details income, expenses, assets, and debts. The defendant files an Answer and CIS.

After initial pleadings, the discovery phase begins—including interrogatories, document production, and possibly depositions. A Case Management Conference is scheduled to set a discovery timeline. The ESP typically occurs 6 to 9 months after filing. If the case remains unresolved, the court may appoint a parenting coordinator for high-conflict custody matters and will schedule an ISC before setting a trial date. Ocean County Family Part has experienced judges who handle these cases regularly.

What’s at Stake in a Contested Divorce

A contested divorce can be emotionally draining and financially demanding. Beyond the direct legal fees, the conflict can affect children’s well-being, strain relationships with extended family, and prolong uncertainty about property division and support. However, through strategic negotiation and the ESP process, many of these conflicts can be narrowed, and the case can be resolved without a full trial.

The outcome of a contested divorce has long-term implications: equitable distribution of marital property, including retirement accounts, business interests, and real estate; alimony awards that may be modified only under limited circumstances; and custody and parenting time orders that govern your relationship with your children for years. Having an experienced attorney who understands New Jersey’s 2014 alimony reform and equitable distribution factors is critical.

Meet Your Legal Team

Mr. Sris, Owner and Founder of Law Offices Of SRIS, P.C., has been practicing law since 1997. A former prosecutor, he is admitted in Virginia, Maryland, the District of Columbia, New Jersey, and New York. Mr. Sris testified before the Virginia House Courts of Justice Committee in support of 2019 HB 635 (chief patron Del. David Bulova). He leads the firm’s family law practice, applying a thorough, methodical approach to each contested divorce.

Mr. Sris and his Of Counsel bring over 120 years of combined legal experience. Results may vary. They have documented 4,739+ case results across all practice areas since 1997. The firm’s New Jersey location serves clients throughout Ocean County, and Mr. Sris and his Of Counsel oversees the strategy for each family law matter. Together with his Of Counsel, he ensures that every case benefits from comprehensive preparation and a thorough understanding of New Jersey family law.

Frequently Asked Questions About Contested Divorce in Ocean County

How long does a contested divorce take in Ocean County?

A contested divorce in Ocean County typically takes between eight months and two years to resolve. The exact timeline depends on the complexity of the issues—such as business valuation or child custody disputes—and the court’s calendar. The mandatory Early Settlement Panel (ESP) occurs about six to nine months after filing, and if the case proceeds to trial, it can extend substantially. Mr. Sris and his Of Counsel work to move the case forward efficiently while protecting your interests.

How much does a contested divorce cost in Ocean County?

The cost of a contested divorce varies significantly based on the issues in dispute and whether the case goes to trial. The initial filing fee is $325, and attorney fees are influenced by the need for attorneys (such as appraisers or forensic accountants), the length of discovery, and the number of court appearances. Law Offices Of SRIS, P.C. Discusses fee arrangements during the initial consultation and strives to manage costs strategically. Call (888) 437-7747 to schedule a consultation.

How is alimony determined in a contested New Jersey divorce?

New Jersey courts apply statutory factors under , including the length of the marriage, each party’s earning capacity, and the standard of living during the marriage. Under the 2014 alimony reform, durational alimony for marriages lasting less than 20 years is generally limited to the length of the marriage. For marriages of 20 years or more, the court may award open durational alimony. Cohabitation by the supported spouse can lead to modification or termination of alimony.

How does child custody work in a contested Ocean County divorce?

Child custody in New Jersey is decided using the trusted-interests-of-the-child standard, with 14 statutory factors under . Neither parent has a legal presumption. The Family Part in Ocean County considers each parent’s ability to provide a stable home, the child’s relationship with siblings and extended family, any history of domestic violence, and the child’s preference if mature enough. The court may appoint a parenting coordinator for high-conflict cases and will issue a parenting plan as part of the final divorce judgment.

What is the Early Settlement Panel (ESP) in New Jersey?

The Early Settlement Panel is a mandatory settlement program in contested New Jersey divorces. A panel of two retired judges or experienced matrimonial attorneys reviews each party’s financial and custody positions and recommends a resolution. While the recommendation is not binding, it carries significant weight and often leads to a settlement. Preparation for ESP is critical; Mr. Sris and his Of Counsel develop a comprehensive presentation tailored to each case.

Do I need a lawyer for a contested divorce in Ocean County?

You are not legally required to have a lawyer, but representing yourself in a contested divorce is extremely risky. Contested divorces involve complex financial disclosures, valuation of assets, and strict court procedures. The mandatory ESP and potential trial require effective advocacy. Mr. Sris and his Of Counsel are familiar with Ocean County Family Part procedures and can present your case effectively. To discuss your situation, call (888) 437-7747.

Can alimony or child support be modified after the divorce?

Yes, alimony and child support may be modified if there is a substantial and permanent change in circumstances. For alimony, common grounds include a significant decrease in the payer’s income, cohabitation by the recipient, or retirement. Child support modifications require proof of changed financial circumstances or a deviation from the guidelines. The modification must be filed in the same court that issued the original order; our firm handles post-judgment motions in Ocean County.

What are the grounds for divorce in New Jersey?

New Jersey allows for a no-fault divorce based on irreconcilable differences for at least six months, as well as several fault-based grounds. Under , common fault grounds include adultery, extreme cruelty, desertion, drug addiction, and institutionalization. Most contested divorces proceed on the no-fault ground, but fault can sometimes influence equitable distribution or alimony. An experienced attorney can advise which ground is most appropriate for your case.

How do I serve divorce papers in Ocean County?

The defendant must be served personally with the Complaint by a process server or sheriff’s officer, or accept service voluntarily. Service of process is a critical step because it triggers the defendant’s time to respond. If the defendant cannot be located, alternative service by publication may be permitted by court order. Law Offices Of SRIS, P.C. Manages service of process as part of initiating your divorce action.

What should I look for in a contested divorce lawyer?

Experience handling Ocean County family law cases, familiarity with the Early Settlement Panel process, and a thorough understanding of New Jersey’s equitable distribution and alimony laws are key. You want a lawyer who will prepare thoroughly for ESP and has trial capability if needed. Mr. Sris and his Of Counsel have extensive experience in New Jersey family courts and will guide you through every stage. To learn more, request a consultation at (888) 437-7747.

Request a Consultation

To speak with Mr. Sris about your contested divorce, contact Law Offices Of SRIS, P.C. at (888) 437-7747. Our New Jersey location is at 44 Apple St, 1st Floor, Tinton Falls, NJ 07724. We represent clients throughout Ocean County, including Toms River, Lakewood, Brick Township, and surrounding communities. By appointment only. Call to schedule.

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